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Dating married men comes with its own set of rules, whether you are single or also married. Perhaps you want excitement, and he just wants to have another sex partner after sleeping with the same woman for so many years. He may have started the affair or you did. No matter your status and reasons for the affair, you still fall under the category of married dating.
Be it a short-lived affair or a whirlwind romance, have fun while it lasts. To maximize the enjoyment out of married dating, it is advisable to stick to these rules.
1. Do not forget that he is married. Whether you have just started going out or have been seeing each other for years, the reality is that he is still legally bound to another woman--his wife. She still has some legally defined rights that you do not. Don’t make the mistake of judging her just because you are fulfilling some of his needs that she can’t.
2. Only enter open doors. There are some areas of a married man’s life that is naturally closed to you. To keep the excitement and thrill of dating married men intact, follow his lead in terms of what he wants to reveal about his life. Don’t become too curious to the point that you start asking questions he’s not comfortable with, or you start stalking him and his family. Just be a good listener and learn to read his body language well so you’d know if you’ve stepped into an off-limits zone.
3. Never nag or make ultimatums. He has his wife doing that for him. If you want something, just bring it up lightly. Don’t push any issue if he already said no. The biggest mistake you can do is to do something drastic like getting pregnant or faking a pregnancy just to follow through on an ultimatum. You can never be sure if he’ll leave his wife and kids for you. You’ll be lucky if he’ll give monetary support to your love child. Do not discount the possibility that he will just cut you off, leaving you with an unwanted infant.
4. Savor your moments together. Take things one day at a time. Avoid planning for things that are way too far in the future. You can make plans for your next date, assuming that both of you have ironed out your schedules well. Planning for a holiday abroad a few months away, for example, will just court trouble and probably leave you disappointed. Married dating, after all, is about spontaneity and fun.
5. Having an affair with a married man doesn’t mean that you have to be committed to him. Remain active in the dating world. If you find yourself wanting to have more from a relationship, look for someone who’s available to provide that for you. Even if you're into married dating, it doesn't mean that you'll forever be the other woman. Never make the mistake of assuming that he will leave his wife for you. If he wanted to, he should already have done that at the start. Always remember rule number 1.
6. Be discreet. You don't want to mess things up by letting his wife and family know about your affair. And you also don't want people judging you because of it. Being in this situation can be isolating, and you will probably want to open up to someone. If that would be the case, be sure that that person is trustworthy and equally discreet.
While dating married men can be fun and exciting, it also has its downsides. Always keep these rules in mind if you want to keep the affair enjoyable.
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